Skills for Confident Living

Topics and presentations that educate, inform and provide the information needed for pre-teens, teens and young adults to present a confident and polished image

Presented by

Pat Durham, Coach, Speaker, Author

Etiquette Classes

Help your child gain the grace and social confidence needed to become a confident and secure young adult. Classes are age and gender appropriate.

Social Events
  • Dining Finesse
  • Movies
  • Theatre
  • Restaurants
  • Being a Gracious Guest or Host
Social Interactions for All Ages
  • With their own age group and with adults
  • Introductions
  • Telephone Etiquette
  • Written communications (including e-mail)
  • Social media

One day is also dedicated to polishing their physical appearance.

Enroll Your Teen in a Skills for Confident Living course

Teen Classes

Course teaches teens skills for their future, giving them social confidence.

  • Applying for a Job

    • The Interview
    • The Resume
    • The Four Ps

  • Future Leaders

    • What makes a great Leader?
    • Insight
    • Focus
    • The Power of Exchange
    • Event Planning
    • Recruiting

Information and Pricing

Choose based on Child's Age


$125 per student To Be Announced
  • 90 Minutes per day
  • Separate Classes for Boys
  • and Girls
  • 10:00 - 11:30 am - Boys Class
  • 2:00 - 3:30 pm - Girls Class


$125 per student To Be Announced
  • 90 Minutes per day
  • Separate Classes for Boys
  • and Girls
  • 10:00 - 11:30 am - Boys Class
  • 2:00 - 3:30 pm - Girls Class


$300 per student To Be Announced
  • 10:00 am - 3:00 pm
  • Private One-on-One Classes
  • For this Age Group
  • Lunch Included

About The Instructor

Pat Durham has been coaching professionals for over 22 years. Executive presence is a combination of appearance, communication skills and social skills.  Pat provides personal development in all three areas.

Pat has worked with a long list of clients, corporate and individual, the very young and not-so-young, Pat assists each with defining and polishing the look, sound and social graces needed to meet the challenges of everyday life, from career or business to school and beyond.

Pat Durham - Coach, Speaker, Author
Pat Durham 2018

See what people are saying:

My (grown) son brings up your session with him at least once every time I see him. When we went to dinner with friends, I noticed his behavior has really changed.  Thanks, D.M.

My daughter learns something new each class. It is so nice to have her politely remind me that my elbows should never be on the table among other reminders. No matter how well traveled, experienced or trained our children are, Pat has a way of bringing out the best in them." B.P.M.

"I appreciate all the great feedback on the interview with the press. I am now more prepared to be interviewed. I think the feedback will very much assist me in future interviews ..." C.H.

"Pat Durham is an exceptional instructor in social etiquette for our students. Regardless of the ages or size of the group, Mrs. Durham effectively and graciously instructs them in the necessary skills for them to successfully navigate any social situation. Our younger students grew in confidence through guided practice in personal introductions and table etiquette. Our older students benefited from her patient and persistent instruction in how to love one's neighbor through gracious deference to others. What is remarkable about Mrs. Durham is her rapport with the students. They love her and appreciate her wit and warmth. Her wealth of experience and Christian perspective only adds to the quality of her work.

I wholeheartedly recommend Pat Durham as an etiquette coach for any student of any age, in any circumstance."  - L. Collins,  Covenant Academy

- Covenant Academy